how to kiss a girls for a first time

Kissing a girl for the first time can be both nerve wrecking and rewarding. The first kiss in a first date, the first kiss in a relation ship; or just kissing a girl for the first time can be very scary, but just do it. Life is too short.

Do This

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   Flirt a little! Tell her that what she is wearing looks pretty; she will appreciate it! If she playfully punches you a lot or teases you in a friendly manner, then she wants you to touch her. Stay in safe territory like quickly grabbing her hand when you want to go show her something; she will appreciate not having the whole awkward looking at each other and blushing.
   
   
   
   • If you are brave you could put your arm around her waist when you two are laughing and say something playful like "You're so cute!"
   • Offer to give her a piggyback ride, or tickle her a little if she likes it. Don't do this constantly, and when you do it, do it respectfully. Don't grab her breasts or butt.
   • Flirting will make her more open to kissing you. Think of kissing as reaching the top of a mountain. You have to hike a little to get to the top.
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   Make sure you have good breath! The girl doesn't want to taste garlic after the kiss, as this can be a major turn off. Before the date or when you see her, brush your teeth and tongue and use mouth wash! To maintain good breath try drinking water on the date instead of soft drink and suck on a mint. Not an over powering mint though, something nice like orange Tic Tacs.
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   Realize that it's hard to determine when it is the right time to kiss. Usually its when you are saying goodbye, or it could just be when you both are looking into each others eyes. Approach her slowly and carefully entwine your arms around her waist, if she moves away then politely ask if somethings wrong. If she is not ready yet, respect that and try to change the subject. If she lets you then slowly pull her body against yours tilt your head to prepare for the kiss.
   
   
   
   • Some girls like it when you ask them "Can I kiss you?" It makes you seem like a gentleman, and it prepares her for the kiss. Try this with wholesome, less experienced girls.
   • Move your face slowly toward hers. This is a universal signal that you're moving in for a kiss. Don't close your eyes until you are just about to kiss her.
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   Try a simple close-mouthed kiss. Don't use tongue the first time you kiss a girl. Make sure you close your eyes right before you start the kiss.
   
   
   
   • Move in a little sideways. If your head is just as upright as her, you'll bump your nose into her nose instead of your lips into her lips.
   • Move slowly and follow her lead. If she's a deep, passionate kisser, she'll hold your lips in hers for a long while; you won't need to move your lips much.
     
     • On the other hand, if she's moving her lips pretty quickly, you want to be prepared to move yours along with hers, kissing her multiple times quickly.
   • If you want, cup her face with your hand and slowly stroke her cheek with your thumb. Make sure you still have one arm firm around her waist or lower back.
   • slowly pull away after a few seconds and open your eyes. Congratulations! Each kiss after the first one is so much easier. You've reached the top of the mountain.
   • Be tender and loving. Kissing is like a silent conversation: You want to be kind, gentle, forgiving, and you want the other person to keep coming back for more!

Tips

• Do not have chapped lips, scrub them with a bit of sugar to get the dead skin off.
• Right before your lips touch, swallow excess spit and lightly lick your lip to make them moist. Don't make it too noticeable though or she'll feel weird.
• Don't be too upset if she doesn't want to kiss, there will always be more opportunities!

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